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Creating an Adoption Life Book When Information is SlimBy Lisa Copen Crafting a life book may seem like a overwhelming task. If you aren't a particular crafty person or don't have much information about your child's life before he or she became a part of your life, it can be hard to figure out where to start. Adoptive families vary in the extent of information they may have about birth mother of their child. While some families actually have the birth mother over to baby sit the child occasionally, others meet at a park for a few hours each year. Other families have no relationship with the birth family, perhaps even nothing more than a name on paper if that. Many families have two or more adopted children and the relationships of the different birthmoms with the family vary. One birthmom may be very involved, while others have no contact at all. When this happens, oftentimes a birthmom of one child will go out of her way send notes or small gifts to the sibling of the child to make sure each child feels included and loved. If you have a good relationship with a birth mom you may be able to get any information you wish for your child's adoption album. She may even be eager to assist to help dig up information or answer questions to help your child have an amazing book. If you don't have very much information about your child's birth or birth family-if any at all-don't worry. You can still design an incredible book that helps your child understand his or her history. Case in point, one of the most important parts of the life book is about the biological mother, but you may not even have a photograph of her. One idea is to include a quotation or poem about how birth moms typically feel. Then journal something like, "Birth moms and dads give their special DNA to their children. I'll be your dark shiny hair came from your dad!" Sometimes you may not even know the birth date of your child or where he or she was born. Rather than calling attention to this fact, write something like, "You were probably born sometime during the winter of 2005 because when you came to the orphanage you weight about the same as the other children born about that time." Understand that it's the amount of love and effort that you put into the life book that will most impress your child. As he grows older and starts to ask more questions, plan to do some of the research together to help answer the questions that arise. Until then, get started and don't let a lack of information thwart you from crafting a loving adoption scrapbook album for your child. Kids love reading stories about themselves and they have the best imagination, having fun make up their own stories to fill in any blanks. The Adoption Scrapbook Album is a quick, easy way to create a professional lifebook. Use transparency overlays and friends will rave--even if you aren't crafty. Free downloads from Lisa Copen at Scrapbook My Adoption keywords: adoption | adoption scrapbook supplies | lifebook | life book | baby album | adoption album | story of me | memory
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