My Adoption Story
August 5, 2010 by Adoption Information and Laws
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Just me and my views on my adoption
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@Bizziboy I agree and thanks.I do my best to get people to stop and listen about the real truth about adoption Agencies, social services and how they are ripping families apart.
@ashatbulaparanormal well said.
Couples buy a “family” at the cost of our families. It’s barbaric.
@Bizziboy I understand your pain and know where your coming from.I too do not like Adoption Agencies and their ways.They are a multi-billion dollar industry and Solicitation for children need to be outlawed.Most don’t know the real truth about Adoption Agencies,nor do I think they really want to know either.Adopters are so desperate to adopted that they don’t care how Adoption Agencies get babies/children or that they are buying,not picking a baby.
Sweetie,I’m sure your mother is looking for you,but is running up against brick walls.The less information mothers have,the harder it is to find their lost children.Most adoption are forced back then and today.Adoption Agencies make it so hard on both adoptees and their mothers by withholding information to protect the adopters.This is why Adoption needs to reformed.
I want to say thanks for sharing your personal thoughts on this matter. I am a licensed foster parent and am trying to decide if adopting a child is the right thing to do. I often wonder about how they will feel about it once they are grown. It is helpful to hear the thoughts directly from someone in your shoes.
my parents gave me that exact same book when i was younger. i completely understand how you feel. i have an open relationship with my birth mother and her family so it is a bit different for me. but i have never met my birth father because he didnt want to have a relationship with me. all i have are a couple pics of him from when he was younger. i am so scared to contact him but i know i will have to one day. my mom has had some contact with his mother but theyve never met. its always been hard
my daughter was raped at 12 had a baby (my grandaughter) i put up a long fight in the family courts to be able to keep her with me (and her birthfamily) but lost all i want to say is i hope and pray she will come and find us and believe me she the day she does find us she will know she was never given away freely i just hope and pray she does have a good life becouse she would have always be given the love of us if she was not stolen a part of my heart went with her when she left us
dude your AWSOME!!!!
Hailstorm, The woman hates her birth mother because we adoptees, whether we are conscious of these emotions or not, feel a tremendous amount of pain, sorrow and rage when we are taken from our mothers. Our mothers are not the correct target of that hatred, however; a more accurate target would be the ignorance of society which posits that substituting one mother for another makes no difference to the emotional well-being of the baby. Losing a foster mother as well must have been even harder.
That’s what adopters and babybrokers say but they don’t live with this hell every frigging day of their lives like adoptees and natural mothers do. Go sell your kool-aid somewhere else. Give away your own kids if you love it so much. Damn I’m sick of you people.
I do not see how you have any claim to my buissnes yet it does not bother me. 14/12/1990
Oh an I was the first person to veiw your channel. How sad.
whats your birthdate?
The video is called ‘My Adoption Story’ the clue is in the title that she was going to be talking about her own experience and her own life. Also you would have been able to see the video length before you clicked on it. If you dont want to watch that is your choice, no one forced you to click it, but there really is no need to leave such an offensive comment.
No.. Not really. I thought the video looked interesting then I saw this hormonal wreck monotomously ranting about her life, Then I saw how long it was. Decided I had better things to do.
Yet you have enough time to waste by writing pathetic comments? Real intellectual huh? You chose to click on the video to leave a comment about not wanting to watch the video….do you see how ridiculous that is?
Yes I am. Pleased to meet you. Xx
You’re a cunt MrMolineux.
Sorry havn’t got 7 mins to listen to your life storey. Shut up.
I agree it is sad & heartbreaking and although things are mostly better today I’ve still heard some shocking modern adoption stories. I’ve met a lot of wonderful, loving adoptive parents but then again the agency I used to volunteer with did a much better job than most in educating adoptive parents about adoption issues and encouraging semi & open adoptions. Education and honest communication is really the key for everyone if an adoption is going to be a happy one.
Are the “good things sometimes” worth risking the lives and futures of the rest of us?
It was not just one family it was 9 years of hell…
That is so sad, I couldn’t imagine being forced to give up my child.
I’m sorry you’ve had to endure shuch awful things. You sound so very angry, and I really don’t blame you. The “they picked me” statement is a figure of speech. There are tonnes of good women out there that want children and would be amazing Mothers if they had the chance, and they can have that chance thru adoption. The people who hurt you should have to suffer, but other ppl shouldn’t have to. Good things do happen sometimes.
I watched the video And I feel horrible for those women, but not all adoptions are forced. And I know nothing about the circumstances, but the bottom line is I have great parents, and they love me, they’ve stood by me after all the horrible shit I put them through, they have given me many opportunities, I have a good life and I had a great childhood. I’m sure my birth mom would be glad to hear that.
Tell me what is it like to be a slave who was bought..? And why would you be so happy about it? Must be the T.V rotting your brain…
You were sold like a toaster oven… ask your Aparent how much they paid for you.. (They call it fees…) But when you hand party A money and party a gives you a child you just bought a human being… Which is also known as child trafficking… now if adoption was not money based I would have nuthing to say
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