Can you answer skatergurljubulee’s question about Adoption?:

Hi,
I want to verify some of what the adoption agencies I’m interested in have been saying. Does it cost money to search the online database? I am aware that some adoptive parents that sign onto an Agency have gag orders, but should that really stop them (Actually, I should make that another question entirely!)?
If any one knows the answer to this question, it would be greatly appreciated.

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Can you answer maybe’s question about Adoption?:

How well was open adoption researched before adoption agencies and attorneys began to offer this option?

Was there much thought about the effect on the either the child, the natural mother, or the adoptive family?

Do people enter into open adoption agreements thinking it will be easier on all parties involved?

Are possible complexities explored before the open adoption is agreed to?

I’m asking this because there are a lot of questions about both mothers and adoptive families who have difficulty keeping in touch and honoring the open adoption agreement. What are your opinions?
Thanks to everyone for telling your stories, opinions, and research. All of the answers are informative and important – I can’t choose a best answer, so I will put the question to a vote.

Thank you!

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As soon as ten to fifteen years ago, almost all adoption agencies had some very strict criteria about who could adopt a baby… and about who could not adopt a baby or child. Typically, you had to fit a “cookie cutter” like mold of the perfect family. You were expected to be a heterosexual married couple, under the age of 40, and meet high financial income requirements in order to prove your ability to adequately care for the adopted baby. If you didn’t fall within this “cookie cutter” family image that the adoption agencies were looking for, you wouldn’t be able to domestically adopt a child.

Currently, the number of progressive adoption agencies that have more liberal adoption standards has been increasing steadily to reflect the needs and changes within our society. In fact, when you work with any adoption professional, whether it be with an adoption attorney, adoption facilitator, or an adoption agency, you will notice that there is a big difference in their approach.

When you are choosing the type of adoption professional to work with, you will want to take the time to interview the different options before making your decision, particularly if you are a single individual looking to adopt, someone over the age of 40, or in a relationship that some might consider to be alternative. Not only are there differences among the various types of adoption professionals, but no two agencies or professionals within the same category will operate in the same manner, either. It’s important that you are comfortable with your adoption professional and that they are willing to help you adopt according to your unique lifestyle.

You may be surprised to learn that some professionals will only work with people who are under a certain age, while others have no age limits at all. You maybe didn’t realize that some adoption professionals will only work with people who are of a certain religions affiliation, either. In some cases, you’ll notice that an adoption professional does not openly announce his or her restrictions, but they seem to take a very judgmental approach.

Adoption is already a confusing and stressful process, there is no reason to work with anyone who is going to make it even more stressful. There is no reason to work with any professional who may make you feel judged or intimidated – simply find someone else who is more open to different adoption scenarios. Not all families need to resemble Leave it to Beaver or the Cosby Show to offer a loving and safe environment for an adopted child.

No matter what your personal circumstances, if you are 45 years old, or unmarried for example – if you can offer an adopted child love and safety, fulfill their basic needs, and provide for their ongoing financial needs, there is an adoption professional out there who will be willing to help you find your child. Interviewing a few different adoption professionals to learn about their criteria for people who are eligible to adopt will ensure that the professional you decide to work with has your best interests in mind and will work with you to fulfill your personal adoption plan.



Thanks to Cindy Simonson for contributing this article to our Adoption blog:

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Can you answer pinksmoochies’s question about Adoption?:

I DO NOT WANT AN ABORTION MORALITY DEBATE! I’VE HEARD ANYTHING YOU COULD POSSIBLY SAY.

For the purpose of research, I was wondering if anyone knew what adoption agency or agencies the late Dr Tiller referred to (I know he tended to use one specific one.)
Protest? I volunteer for Planned Parenthood sweetheart.

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Can you answer Galileah_B’s question about Adoption?:

I am thinking of adopting sometime in the future. But I am out of the country, nor am I familiar wih Manila adoption agencies. What are the well known or recommended orphanages in the Luzon or Manila area?

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